It’s Monday, May 21, 2012. We returned to LCP this morning after being away for over
two weeks. There was a small crowd
of college scholars hanging around the gate as Jacques and I arrived on our
bikes. When the boys saw us their
faces lit up. They immediately
lifted their hands for high-5s and simultaneously shouted “Welcome home!”
Welcome home.
Home.
I’ll rewind a little. Jacques’ site placement at the
university is challenging. I get
frustrated just hearing about the seemingly backward policies, impossible
learning environments, and ego driven decision-making models; I just hear about
it… he has to sit in it day after day.
If you know him, you can imagine how difficult it is to observe without
giving input, analyze without making adjustments, and strategize for
improvement without the ability to implement.
LCP has provided a welcomed change of pace. The boys love him. The social workers want to hear and
understand his feedback. Our supervisor admires and appreciates his
insight. He of course dove in to
reading the “Shelter Manual”- page by page- to fully understand the mission,
vision, and policies guiding the shelter programs. Simply stated, at LCP Jacques is able to be his dynamic self.
To kick off the summer, Jacques suggested we host a “Fun
Day” at LCP. We came up with a
series of short activities in which the shelter youth could compete. They balanced brooms on their fingers,
tossed coins in coconut shells for points, and jumped around to remove the
“junk in their trunk”.
The highlight of the week was taking the girls snorkeling for their first time. They literally shouted through their snorkels, "fish, fish, fish!" and cooed, "Oooh it's beautiful."
Somewhere in this time, Jacques also started planning an
adventure for the youth in Independent Living (18- 21 year olds living at LCP
while attending college). We knew we had a full schedule ahead, yet Jacques really wanted to create an opportunity to connect with this particular group of youth.
As plans
for this outing began to unfold, Jacques joined me for six days during an environmental awareness camp. The first 3 days involved training our youth leaders. Jacques served as "camp cook" and prepared snacks and dinner for 16 of us each night. He spent hours biking all over town collecting ingredients, cooking large quantities of Jambalaya and his famous tuna spaghetti, and in his spare time helped me plan for each day. During camp, his
sole focus was to collect photos and footage to create a closing ceremony
video. It was a perfect 40-minute
video with features such as lyrics to strategically selected songs being sung
at the opportune moment to match a specific picture and photos changing in precise
time with the background music. See a brief video review of our camp here:
Following these grand adventures, we left LCP for two weeks
to participate in a "Mobile Education Training". Along with 14 other Peace Corps
volunteers, we facilitated education sessions to teachers from all over our
island. I facilitated one and a
half hour Classroom Management and Vocabulary sessions while Jacques presented
3-hour lessons reviewing his in-depth research of the brain. At the end of my very last session, a
woman remained in my room. She
thanked me profusely (teachers seemed very grateful for the entire conference),
and then went on to tell me she had also been in Sir Fournet’s brain
session. She told me in great
detail how she learned her brain is sometimes hijacked by certain events; and
how she now better understands her students’ brains so she won’t get so
frustrated with them when they look hot and tired. She told me she would use some new techniques she learned
for getting students’ attention and for engaging both sides of their brains. She seemed authentically excited to
share out loud the new information she had absorbed. It’s exciting to think even a small part of her
new-information-high would continue into her classroom.
Following the conference, Jacques and I took the weekend to
get a way. It just so happens the
Philippines provides beautiful and inexpensive tropical settings for a little rejuvenation. In times like these, it’s easy to forget
we’re in the Peace Corps. We swam,
we kayaked, we dove, we ate, we slept… we enjoyed peaceful time together.
And then we headed home. This morning, the warm greeting at LCP’s gate quickly washed
away any end-of-vacation blues I may have been carrying to work with me.
When I started this journal entry, I intended to review April and May’s events. As
I reflect on this whirlwind of experiences, I realize it has become a tribute
to Jacques. While this was not my
intention, it makes perfect sense.
We have had a very awesomely… maddeningly… amazingly full summer mostly
due to Jacques’ creativity and ability to “make things happen.” I’m grateful to have selected a partner
that has a knack for consistently improving himself (and me!) and the
atmosphere around him.
The boys this morning summed it up best… when I’m with Jacques, no matter where
we are in the world… I am
home.